Can you be optimistic and realistic at the same time,
How about when it doesn’t go your way,
It doesn’t always work out,
What then,
Shoot for the stars,
How about if you keep missing,
It seems like your missing out on good luck all the time,
How do you deal with that,
You get to the top of the hill but you can get that extra push to get over it,
Where do you go from there,
What do you do,
Have faith
Sincere 
Thank you for this lovely post.
Have faith. That’s the crux. Thanks!